Perimenopause & Menopause

How essential oils can support your transition

What Are Perimenopause & Menopause

Menopause is a natural biological transition marking the end of menstruation and fertility. While every person’s experience is unique, most begin noticing changes in their mid‑40s (or earlier due to medical or surgical factors). Menopause is confirmed after 12 consecutive months without menstruation; the transition phase leading up to it is known as perimenopause, which is when most symptoms appear.

Hot Flushes & Night Sweats
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Sleep Disruption
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Mood Changes & Anxiety
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Brain Fog & Mental Fatigue
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Dry Skin
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Joint Discomfort & Stiffness
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Hot Flushes & Night Sweats

Hot flushes and night sweats are sudden heat surges triggered as falling oestrogen levels disrupt the body’s internal temperature regulation. A pre-prepared blend like Restore Balance combines Rose Absolute, Geranium, and Clary Sage - all helpful in balancing hormones and offering a sense of calm and equilibrium. Geraniol, found in Geranium and Rose, supports emotional regulation while offering mild cooling, soothing properties that help stabilise the nervous system and reduce the intensity of heat surges. Additionally, Clary Sage contains sclareol, a component shown to bind to oestrogen receptor sites; while it doesn't replace oestrogen, it may help modulate the body's response to declining hormone levels.

Product Solutions & Rituals:

  • Restore Balance Body & Room Mist: Apply the body spray onto your chest as you feel a flush coming on.
  • Restore Balance Pulse Point Rollerball: Keep on your nightstand to use during the night if you are woken by a heat surge.
  • DIY Hot Flush Blend: If you prefer to create your own blend, add 3 drops of Clary Sage (Salvia sclarea) and 2 drops of Cypress (Cupressus sempervirens) to 10ml of your chosen blending oil. Take a little of the blend into your palms, rub them together, bring your hands up towards your face to inhale the aroma, and massage into your upper chest daily.

Sleep Disruption

The dip in oestrogen and progesterone can significantly impact your sleep architecture. Lower oestrogen levels are behind nighttime heat surges, while progesterone normally helps us feel naturally calm and ready for rest. When both hormones fall, drifting off becomes harder and waking up during the night becomes much easier. Plant aromatics rich in natural sedatives can help quiet an overactive mind; linalool and linalyl acetate in Lavender, santalol in Sandalwood, and calming esters in Jasmine work in synergy to promote deeper, more restful sleep.


Solutions & Rituals

  • Sleep Better Body & Pillow Mist: Spritz onto your pillow just before getting into bed.
  • Sleep Better Bath Oil: Add to a warm bath for a deeply relaxing bedtime ritual.
  • Diffuser Ritual: 30 minutes before bed, add up to 8 drops of pure Lavender essential oil to your bedroom diffuser. Close the door to let the room fill with aroma, then switch off the diffuser before sleeping.
  • Pillow Application: Place 2 drops of Lavender directly onto the corner of your pillow (away from face contact) and breathe deeply.

Mood Changes & Anxiety

Declining hormone levels directly influence key neurotransmitters like serotonin and dopamine, often leading to sudden emotional shifts and heightened anxiety. Introducing self-massage alongside essential oils helps activate the parasympathetic nervous system, lowering cortisol levels so the body can better regulate mood. Oils like Geranium contain citronellol and geraniol to ease emotional fluctuations and ground the nervous system. Combining this with Bergamot - rich in limonene, linalool, and linalyl acetate - helps lift low mood and lower stress markers, creating the ideal conditions for balanced nervous system activity.

Solutions & Rituals:

  • Real Calm Room & Body Mist: A balanced blend of grounding Patchouli, sedative Lavender, and uplifting Bergamot. Spritz around your space whenever you feel tension rising.
  • DIY Soothing Body Oil: Mix 4 drops of Geranium (Pelargonium graveolens) and 6 drops of Bergamot (Citrus bergamia) into 20ml of Jojoba carrier oil. Apply in long, slow strokes over the body to encourage deep relaxation.

Brain Fog & Mental Fatigue

Brain fog is no laughing matter; losing your train of thought mid-sentence can feel disorienting and alarming. These temporary cognitive lapses happen as fluctuating hormone levels alter processing in the brain. Revitalising plant aromatics help clear mental clutter and restore focus. Peppermint (Mentha piperita) is packed with menthol to invigorate the mind and sharpen concentration, bright Lemon (Citrus limonum) refreshes an exhausted mental state, and crisp Rosemary provides a clean aroma that cuts directly through brain fog.

Solutions & Rituals:

  • Mind Clear Rollerball: Apply to inner wrists and inhale deeply when you need to feel focused and in control.
  • Instant Tissue Inhalation: Place 1 drop of Peppermint or Rosemary essential oil onto a tissue. Hold near (but not touching) your nose and inhale deeply for an immediate mental lift.

Dry Skin

Menopause directly impacts the skin because declining oestrogen reduces the body's natural capacity to retain moisture. As collagen breaks down more rapidly and natural surface oils decrease, skin can begin to feel drier, thinner, and less supple. Rich blending oils like Jojoba work as an ideal base to replenish lost lipid balance. Pairing Jojoba with skin-supportive essential oils like Neroli, Lavender, Rose, and Geranium provides deep nourishment while offering an uplifting aroma during your daily post-shower routine.


Solutions & Rituals:

  • Restore Balance Massage & Body Oil: Enriched with Jojoba and Sesame seed oils alongside Rose, Geranium, and Clary Sage to deeply nourish dry skin. Apply daily after showering.
  • DIY Nourishing Body Oil: Add 3 drops of Neroli (Citrus aurantium amara) and 2 drops of Lavender (Lavandula angustifolia) to 10ml of Jojoba oil. Apply in long, gentle strokes over damp skin after washing.

Joint Discomfort & Stiffness

Declining oestrogen levels during perimenopause can directly affect musculoskeletal health, leading to joint stiffness, reduced mobility, and localised discomfort. As hormonal levels shift, tissues surrounding the joints often experience increased inflammation, making symptom management a key priority for maintaining daily mobility and physical activity.


Solutions & Rituals:

  • DIY Joint Comfort Massage: Combine 4 drops of Roman Chamomile (Anthemis nobilis) and 6 drops of Frankincense (Boswellia carterii) in 20ml of Jojoba carrier oil. Take your time massaging the blend into uncomfortable hips, ankles, wrists, fingers, or toes.
ESSENTIAL OIL FAQS

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Lavender essential oil is widely used to support relaxation and restful sleep. Its natural aroma contains calming compounds such as linalool and linalyl acetate. For bedtime use, try adding 6-8 drops to a diffuser, creating a soothing bath or body oil blend, or placing 1–2 drops on your pillow before bed.

Lavender oil may help support scalp comfort, particularly if dryness or irritation is present. Always dilute lavender essential oil in a blending oil to create a hair treatment before applying to the scalp. Massage gently into your scalp and through hair, leave for a short period, then wash out with your regular shampoo. For hair growth concerns, Rosemary essential oil is often preferred. If irritation persists, seek medical advice.

Lavender essential oil is considered one of the gentler oils and is commonly used in skincare for its cleansing and soothing properties. It may help support the appearance of balanced, healthy-looking skin. Always add to a blending oil to create a skin treatment before applying to the skin.

No. Lavender essential oil, like all essential oils, should not be applied neat (undiluted) to the skin. Combine it with a suitable blending oil before use to help avoid irritation or sensitivity.

Lavender oil has a pleasant scent but is not the most effective natural insect repellent. Oils such as Lemongrass (Cymbopogon citratus) or Citronella (Cymbopogon winterianus) are typically more suitable for deterring flying insects.

Lavender oil may help promote relaxation during times of tension and is known to have an analgesic (pain relieving) component. For topical use, combine with a blending oil and massage gently onto the temples or back of the neck. Headaches can have many causes, so seek medical advice if symptoms are severe or persistent.

Lavender is one of the most versatile essential oils for blending. It pairs beautifully with floral oils like Neroli and Geranium, softens woody oils such as Cedarwood, and complements fresh citrus oils like Orange or Bergamot. It also blends well with herbal oils, including Rosemary.

Our essential oil expert, Jo Kellett TIDHA MIFPA CIMI, graduated from the Tisserand Institute of Holistic Aromatherapy in 1996. She returned to the college in 1999 as an Essential Oil Therapeutics Tutor, where she taught until the college closed. Jo runs a successful private Aromatherapy practice in Brighton, specialising in Women’s health. Jo is also an internationally published author and has lectured on the subject of Aromatherapy both in the UK and abroad.

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